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Thursday, November 11, 2010

C'mon, Be Real!

By Benny Trrouble Goodman
Do you know what I friggin' hate? When girls aren't real with me. Look, I don't care if you think I'm creepy, weird, annoying, whatever, just tell it how it is. How many times has a girl made you feel like she's into you or that she's down and then all of a sudden goes MIA? Not everyone is gonna dig ya, I know that, but have the courtesy to tell us. Stop with the "I'll hit you up next week" shit or the "I have to check my schedule" ridiculousness. Or even worse, you make plans with us and then last minute text us (not call) that its girl night and you had forgotten that you're chillin' with your friend Sara and you both had made plans six months ago and that if you don't hang right this fuckin' minute she's gonna be sooooooo mad at you!

Bottom line, be real with us just like you want us to be real with you. I can take someone telling me I suck. All I have to say to that is NEXT. When you play passive aggressive or just plain deceptive, you get us thinking that we have a chance or maybe you're down because you keep stringing us along. Meanwhile, you're looking over to your girlfriend showing her our texts acting like we're the fuckin' stalker. Get over yourself. Heaven forbid we put in the effort. Communication is so key. Just tell us how you really feel. You aren't sparing anybody's feelings by not laying it out. What you're doing is prolonging the inevitable and making yourself (and me) look/feel like a douche in the meantime. Stop playing games and get off your high horse. We weren't meant to be but you don't gotta be weird 'bout it.

14 comments:

Anonymous said...

HHAHAHAHHAHA!!!!!!

Anonymous said...

This is so fucking dead on.

Jon said...

SOOOOOOOOO true dude

Anonymous said...

waaayyyy to tell it how it is Trouble

Irene said...

did you read my f-ing mind!?!

Amanda Ferlisi said...

hahahahha i LOVE this

Anonymous said...

Amen! no, really. AMENNNNNNN

Anonymous said...

Wow, I'm so gonna post this on every bitches wall that ever fuckin' did this. Tell it how it is kid.

Tera said...

Wheres the like button????

Theresa said...

Unfortunately, some people do that shit for the attention. People that need attention are insecure about something so they probably don't have the balls to tell you how it is. Mind fucks. Actions speak louder than words so sometimes we have to be smart enough to rise above the noise and read between the lines.

Anonymous said...

This is like the story of my life...I couldnt have said it better

Beth said...

hmmmm.

The Deal said...

You would hmmmmm this Beth :-)

Devin McGuire said...

Communication is definately key - and being real is too. I feel that people are so masked now-a-days that they don't know who they are, or they portray to be the hottest thing at the time. I know it's good to be en vogue, but at least display your own soul and personality. That is the only way a guy/girl is really going to be into you. In my book - Ya give what ya get - Bottom Line!

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